I had planned a visit back home to Nigeria to first of all see my ageing mother. The visit was planned for July 2008 but my elder brothers refused to inform her earlier should in case my plans get changed. However, a week before my arrival my eldest brother travelled to the village to get her informed and prepared as I was taking one my children along. On arrival, my brother was given the shock of his life when our mother ask him a simple question. He's arrived, hasn't he? Amazing isn't it? - the spiritual link between a loving mother and her children.